Hey Ryan, I was with my ex for 9 years. I want to commit to fixing our relationship but understand that she is not in the best state of mind to talk. Is this a rebound? My ex found a new girlfriend 3 months after our breakup. I would suggest that if he could walk away once over lack of physical contact, as long as nothing changes aka you moving to be with him or vice versait could easily happen a second time. Regardless of that, your best course of action is to follow the 5 step plan. One of his friends said he saw me and left cuz he didn't want me to be uncomfortable.
Since last november I told him I felt uncomfortable with him being friends with her.
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Then around mid october out of nowhere he states he's unhappy and he's been unhappy for a while and that I treated him like shit for 9 years. Well, it would be better not to, although if she contacts you first, perhaps you could always start off as friends. So imagine my surprise when my friend showed me that pic. I tried asking her to get together to catch up but she said she doesn't think that's a good idea yet because she's currently happy with someone else. So we had a break, we wanted to start over but the thing was