Remember that after this date you will still have responsibility for their growth. They challenge one another. But leadership roles at that age? I do get fired up at spiritual platitudes which is exactly what you are offering. Jesus is the ultimate lover, though he never dated he still loved. This kind of thing should be encouraged.
Hint I was seeking to find a wife not a booty call, or a screw buddy which is what all the women at my church was looking for.
It did work out for me. I could never catch a break from their church talk or preaching. It's Not You, It's Me. And WHY is he asking me out? What if she says yes?