You need to answer that question honestly with yourself. Whereas with many of my gay friends, definitely if monogamy is desired, then THAT is a conversation you should specifically have or risk finding out your partner has a wider field of play. We do things because we choose to, and pointing the finger at others only looks weak and blame-y. That should have been HIS dealbreaker. A guy who inspires passion, an ambitious professional who challenges you, or an intelligent guy who teaches you?
Sasa September 28,7:
“My Boyfriend Belongs to a Sex Site”
Am I the only one who read that and got caught up on that? None of us are truly monogamous. This happened to me, a friend of my now ex saw my old profile on a dating site. I agree with you, PL. Maybe you forget to mention it on a single evening, but for nine months straight?