I love a good book recommendation. This serves dual purposes. I assume that I should actually be TRYING to write a quality message because the content of the message is actually going to be read and weighed in the decision process of whether or not she will be responding back to me. Be natural and poke fun; but don't be creepy or needy but also be concise and to the point. I just got back from a life changing two week scuba retreat in Belize. Good First Messages for Online Dating by yannibmbr time to read:
Not what you would call a "natural" with women, he has spent many years developing himself and his approach to dating and now has found great success, especially with older women.
5 Online Dating Message Tips: Examples of What to Say