First, stop avoiding and suppressing your negative feelings. Such relationships fizz out as quickly as they have started. Get our newsletter every Friday! Sometimes in a relationship — especially a long distance relationship — one of the partners decides to give up and move on rather than work on the relationship. You get the idea.
But true growth can only happen when we look inside ourselves.
5 Delusional Things That Keep You From Moving On After A Breakup
Left out I need help I need him for support but am not in love…. I thought we were going to spend our lives together, but the gods of love had other plans. Believing you have only one soul mate is nothing more than a limiting belief—and limiting beliefs are meant to be overcome. I met new people and shared life experiences with them in a vulnerable way. Now this can get pretty bad if the significant other moves on and then you find yourself stalking them and seeing their pictures on social media having the time of their life. Second, get back to doing things you love. It is our fear of seeing our ex not missing us or us being rejected that completely takes over rational thinking and reality.