Want to add to the discussion? My grandparents tell me this all the time too. Looked into groups around things I found fun and gone from there to network and reach out. Plus buffalo is scumbag city lmaoo. Log in or sign up in seconds. If you exchange some friendly conversation and they seem like they're good Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities.
You should focus on yourself instead.
Singles Meetups in Buffalo
Way too low effort or picky women and they had all the control. Most friends who are seeking a relationship do well if they're good about deciphering who is bs and who isn't. Let people you trust do the hard work versus sitting in a bar and rolling the dice. Just a way to check out places in Buffalo each month too. OkCupid used to be decent with finding reasonable individuals. The Pink, Sidebar, and Founding Fathers are usually great for conversation, barwise. So I've found the vast majority of people I know meet new people through mutual friends or at bars.