You need to get help. The typical extremely busy shadchan makes MAYBE 10 shidduchim a year and max from both sides totals 3k per shidduch which almost never happens. My parents are 10 years apart. Which is a very unusual unless in itself unless the guy is wealthy. Is that really who you want to believe? The main threats are abusive manipulation and sex abuse. The fact that you would even ask this question concerns me.
It's a fine age gap for anyone.
Is a 38 year old woman too old for a 26 year old guy?? If not how do i tell him i like him??
Martha raye, famous old guy, then props to him. It is very likely that there would be a huge power imbalance in the relationship, the 14 year old is not going to know as much about herself or how to handle other people and could end up being manipulated. Since dating eventually leads to intimacy; be sure to check the age of consent laws for that country or state. Midwest2 — Another angle: Good starting point would be how long have you known and seeing each other. Where I live the age of consent is 16 so it would be perfectly legal for a 26 or 28 year old to have a sexual relationship with a 16 year old.